July 14, 2026

The silence of a prison cell is heavy. But in a way, it's nothing compared to the silence at a family's Shabbos table.

Overwhelmingly, the questionable financial decisions people make are driven by wanting to provide for their family. They want to ease the pressure. The possibility that they are risking their seat at the family dinner table is not part of the calculus in that moment.

Spouses and children are the unseen victims. I will never forget what a wife and mother once told me, “My husband went to Otisville, and I was in a prison of my own on the outside.”

Nugget: Look around your dining room table this Shabbos. Think about the sacrifices you make each and every day on behalf of your family, the things you do in order to be there for your loved ones. Is any amount of money worth risking your seat at the Shabbos table?

I wish you a week of clarity, integrity and peace of mind.

Warmly,

Rabbi Levi Landa

Director, Project 432

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These prevention nuggets provide general perspective about the law and do not constitute legal advice. The law often changes based on jurisdiction. For advice regarding your specific situation, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

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